The Sovereign Grace Store has added free mp3 sets for Next 2012 and our Pastors Conference 2012. General sessions, break-out sessions, and "conversations between friends" are listed below with relevant detail. Download today and enjoy.

General Session Messages:
- Jeff Purswell, "The Church and the Purpose of God"
- Jared Mellinger, "The Church and Membership"
- Ian McConnell, "The Church and Sunday"
- Kevin DeYoung, "The Church and Friendship"
- Kevin DeYoung, "The Church and Holiness"
- Matt Chandler, "The Church and Culture"
- C.J. Mahaney, "The Church and Disappointment"
Conversations Between Friends:
- C.J. Mahaney with Kevin DeYoung
- C.J. Mahaney with Matt Chandler
- Bob Kauflin with Devon Kauflin

General Session Messages:
- Dave Harvey, "Forgiveness: Debtor No More" (Mt 18:21-35)
- Jeff Purswell, "A Call to Arms" (Eph 6:10-20)
- Ligon Duncan, "God and Your Ministerial Discouragement" (Dt 34, 1 Kings 19, 2 Tim 4)
- Ian McConnell, "Gospel Men on Gospel Mission" (Mt 6:13-21)
Break-Out Sessions:
- Matthew Wassink, "What Polity Can, Can't and Shouldn't Do For Us"
- Paul Buckley,"Godly Speech - The Power of the Words We Speak, Write and Read"
- Phil Sasser, "Effective Elderships: Fostering Clear Roles, Healthy Function, and Strong Leadership"
- Jon Payne, "Union with Christ and Everyday Pastoring: Reinforcing an Important Doctrine"
- Craig Cabaniss, "Leading through Change: How to Address Sin, Mistakes and Growth in the Church"
- John Loftness, "Evaluating Pastors: Common Mistakes, What We've Learned, and What Scripture Calls Us To"
- Mark Prater, "Loving and Leading Those Who Criticize"
- Dave Harvey, "What’s Our Role? Elders and the Global Mission"
- Mickey Connolly, "Discerning Holiness: Legalism, License and the Principle/Practice Distinction"
- Bob Kauflin, "Parenting and the Grace of God: Has Our Understanding Changed?"
- Nancy Guthrie, "Pain that Can't be Prayed Away"
- Nancy Guthrie, "Learning to Walk with Each Other Through Loss"

This week the Pastors College welcomes Mike Bullmore as our guest lecturer on the theology and practice of the spiritual disciplines in the Christian life. Dr. Bullmore is a frequent teacher in the Pastors College, is a former professor at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, and since 1998 has led CrossWay Community Church in Kenosha, Wisconsin.
In this course Dr. Bullmore provides a clear definition of the sometimes fuzzy concept of spirituality: “Christian spirituality is the pursuit of godliness.” And after reading “the key text for this course” (1 Timothy 4:6–16), he continues,
There’s a lot at stake in your godliness. There’s heavy, weighty things attached to your personal pursuit of godliness. This week is all about attentiveness to your spiritual life—the pursuit of godliness. The most important factor in your pastoring is not your gifting; it’s your godliness. And that’s the most important factor in your parenting, and your being a husband. Your people are going to appreciate your gifting and your wisdom, but what they will look to, and long for, is your personal godliness.
Proverbs 14:26 is directed towards fathers: “In the fear of the Lord one has strong confidence, and his children will have a refuge.” I think the same thing is true in pastoring. It’s a leadership issue. A man who fears the Lord has a fortress. And for your people that will be a refuge.
Dr. Bullmore also shares Robert Murray M’Cheyne’s famous adage: “My people's greatest need is my personal holiness,” a sentence where, Kevin DeYoung once wrote, “almost my whole philosophy of ministry is summed up” (Don't Call it a Comeback, 26).
We anticipate another rich week of pastoral training. For more on the topic you can listen to Bullmore’s 105-minute message “Spiritual Disciplines” recorded at CrossWay Community Church.
Who do we expect to "be there" for us when life gets hard? Our families. And those of us in the church have the same expectation of our church family. So how do we pray for those facing terminal illness? How can we overcome the awkwardness of interacting with those going through a divorce or grieving the death of a spouse or child? How do we keep from being that person who said the wrong thing to someone who's lost a loved one? How do we help those who have gone through a very public trial get back to normal in the life of our church? These are the kinds of questions Nancy Guthrie addresses in her breakout session taught at this years Pastors Conference: Learning to Walk with Each Other Through Loss
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God is our father and he has invited us to come to him with our needs and requests. But often times we pray for reconciliation and the marriage ends in divorce. We pray for resources and the house goes into foreclosure. We pray for healing and have to learn to live with the disability. What do we do when we do not get what we ask for earnestly in prayer? When we sense that God has said "no" to our prayers, we are in good company. Jesus knows what it feels like to hear God say "no" and so does "Paul." Observing what Jesus said when God said “no” to his pleading prayer and how Paul responded when he heard "no" shows us what to do when God tells us “no.”
Nancy Guthrie addresses this content in her breakout session taught at this years Pastors Conference: Pain that Can’t be Prayed Away
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It’s one thing to believe in plurality of elders. It’s quite a different thing to actually have a healthy functioning plurality in the local church. Is it now government by committee? Is there a place for a Senior Pastor in a plurality? Are all elders equal? If not, how are they different and how do those differences impact a local eldership?
Many Sovereign Grace churches have made significant progress in establishing a plurality of elders in past few years. And yet, many unforeseen challenges lie ahead for these churches, especially as we stand on the verge of entering into a new polity structure for Sovereign Grace churches. Phil Sasser addresses many of these questions in his breakout session taught at this years Pastors Conference: Effective Elderships: Fostering Clear Roles, Healthy Function, and Strong Leadership
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The intent of James chapter 3 is to convince us that our words hold great power. Multiple metaphors are used to reveal the disproportionate strength the tongue holds: like a bit in the mouth of a horse, a rudder of a large ship, and a spark setting a forest ablaze. We must be aware of this power the tongue holds to either bless or curse, to forgive or condemn, to honor or slander.
In Paul Buckely’s breakout session from our 2012 Pastors Conference, he addresses The Power of the Words we Speak, Write, and Read. Paul humbly shares the effects his sinful speech has had on others and how ungodly speech directed at him has injured. James chapter 3 and Paul’s stories point to the reality that we have all failed to tame the tongue. We are all in need of forgiveness, both from each other and from God. And all of us can find forgiveness in the person and work of Jesus!
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All pastors need evaluation, whether it is to ordain them to ministry or to help them improve or to handle charges of wrongdoing. This much the Bible makes clear. But our history in Sovereign Grace--at least for some of our churches--has been lacking in clearly defined processes and in approaching evaluation in an ad hoc manner.
In this breakout session from our 2012 Pastors Conference, John Loftness points to directions for improving in this vital area of ministry--by first distinguishing between different types of evaluation and then establishing pre-determined processes that lead toward accurate and helpful conclusions.
Evaluating Pastors: Common Mistakes, What We've Learned, and What Scripture Calls Us To
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Because pastoral ministry has a public dimension to it, Charles Spurgeon said, “Public men must expect public criticism.”
Over the last year the pastors in Sovereign Grace Ministries have received a lot of thoughts, input, and criticism. Much of it has been necessary and helpful. God is using the input and critique to sharpen us as pastors and grow us as a family of churches. One area that God seems to be sharpening us as pastors is to learn how to effectively respond to criticism by loving and leading those who criticize. How do we as pastors listen to critique, be shaped by it and yet lead if we don’t agree with the input received? And how do we love and lead those who criticize without minimizing their voice, benefitting from the diverse perspectives in our churches while maintaining unity? Those questions are answered in this 2012 Pastors Conference breakout session taught by Mark Prater, entitled “Loving and Leading Those Who Criticize.”
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Do elders have a role in the Great Commission? Absolutely!
In this breakout session from the 2012 Pastors Conference, Dave Harvey addresses four specific ways elders play a vital role in the global mission. It is the goal for every church to be even more passionate and more involved in seeing the gospel proclaimed to the nations.
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How do we receive people? In particular, how do we receive people who are different than us on indifferent or debatable matters. Paul addresses this very question in Romans chapter 14. His answer: welcome them because God has welcomed them.
In this breakout session, Discerning Holiness: Legalism, License, and the Principle/Practice Distinction, Mickey Connolly discusses how Paul’s understanding of welcoming has helped him recognize and adjust some of the mistakes he has made in trying to apply biblical principles to certain practices. Scattered throughout are eight practical implications of Paul’s teaching that can help us all be more welcoming, less judgmental, and more biblically informed Christians and churches.
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